What is the difference between you and them? This is the question that must be haunting you when you are trying to impress girls, despite not being unattractive. The problem with most people who think themselves unattractive is that they are attractive. They might not exactly be "prince charming", but this does not imply that they are not good to look at. They push themselves into a self created shell of despair and think that they are not suitable or attractive enough to woo her...
Remove your mental block: The first and the most important step is to remove your mental block. If the thought, that you are not attractive enough, keeps on pegging at the back of your subconscious mind, it will be very tough, at times impossible, to impress girls of your choice. Convince yourself that you are good enough as the others. Do not worry if it takes time and seems tough. Just remember that it is not impossible.
What impresses her: You have to find out what things she likes the most in males since those are the things that will impress her the most. Again these things are not tough and most women demand that their men me presentable and worthy of her. She would like you to show you off to her friends and family at a later stage, so keep yourself presentable. Nobody likes a uncouth and uncultured person.
Gifts & chocolates: There are few women who do not like being showered by gifts so watch out for a suitable opportunity and shower her with some gifts. It need not be expensive and sometimes even a chocolate or a bunch of flowers work wonders. The feelings of the person behind the gift are more important than the gift itself.
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